In his talk entitled “Be strong and of a good courage”, President
Monson warned, “Decisions are constantly before us which can determine our
destiny. In order for us to make the correct decisions, courage is needed—the
courage to say no when we should, the courage to say yes when that is
appropriate, and the courage to do the right thing because it is right.”
He goes on to discuss the strength and courage needed by
each of us in standing for what is right in any situation we find ourselves. In an interview published in a national
magazine, well-known basketball player Jabari Parker, a member of the Church,
was asked to share the best advice he had received from his father. Replied
Jabari, “My father said, just be the same person you are in the dark that you
are in the light.”
It is on this thought I would like to focus my remarks.
Brothers and sisters, are we the same person in the dark as we are in the
light? When the door closes and we are alone, what do our thoughts, words and
actions look like? C.S. Lewis said, “Surely what a man does when he is taken
off his guard is the best evidence for what sort of a man he is. Surely what
pops out before the man has time to put on a disguise is the truth. If there
are rats in a cellar, you are most likely to see them if you go in very
suddenly. But the suddenness does not create the rats: it only prevents them
from hiding. In the same way the suddenness of the provocation does not make me
an ill-tempered man; it only shows me what an ill-tempered man I am. The rats
are always there in the cellar, but if you go in shouting and noisily they will
have taken cover before you switch on the light.”
What rats in our cellar need to be addressed? And where does
the strength come from to exercise the courage needed to become what we are to
become? In D&C 11:28-30 we learn, “But verily, verily, I say unto you, that
as many as receive me, to them will I give power to become the sons {and
daughters} of God, even to them that believe on my name.” We are here on this earth with the single
objective to return and live with our Father in Heaven. But how often we are
distracted from this goal! How many things take precedence over the covenants
we have made with our Father in Heaven!!
In Mosiah 3:19 we read, “for the natural man is an enemy to
God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless
he yields to the enticing of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man
and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as
a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to
all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth
submit to his father.”
David O. McKay has taught:
This is the process being described in the scripture above.
We put off the natural man and become good, and then we can begin the journey
of becoming a saint through the development of the virtues and characteristics mentioned.
Submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, and willing to submit to all
things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon us.
May I suggest that it is not good enough to just act in
these attributes? This is a great starting point, but it cannot be our
destination. In the scripture from
D&C we learned that we receive power to become. We are to
actually become these things. Christ didn't just love perfectly. He was perfect
love. He did not just act humble. He was humility personified. And the power
we are discussing, that we are given, is through Him whose perfect Atonement
redeems us from our fallen state and gives us the ability to
become a saint. But brothers and sisters we need to BE courageous when no one is
watching, when all that stands between us and the natural man is our desire to
love and serve our Father in Heaven. There is far too much of the natural man
in all of us. Any is too much, and we all have too much. The natural man is an enemy to God, and has
been from the fall of Adam. We cannot go back into the presence of our Father
in Heaven bearing the characteristics and attitudes of this world. We are to
live in this world without being of this world. Now I know the process of the
straight and narrow path takes time and that we must continually humble
ourselves and put off the temptations and designs of the adversary. But if we are not continually doing this in
everything we do, we are wasting our precious time here on earth.
Our Father in Heaven is hastening His work. And He needs
each of us to be ready and willing to step up and accept the call to the work
He has issued. But we cannot go courageously out into the world to defend His work, if the scurrying of
rats in our cellars continues
to draw our attention away from Him.
So how do we clean out our cellars? How do we change our
desires and motives? The very foundations of who we are? As King Benjamin
suggested, we put off the natural man and we yield to the enticings of the Holy
Spirit. We’ve been discussing courage, how do we show courage by doing these
things? Elder Holland has said, “We must be willing to place all that we
have--not just our possessions (they may be the easiest things of all to give
up), but also our ambition and pride and stubbornness and vanity--we must place
it all on the altar of God, kneel there in silent submission, and willingly
walk away.”
We are taught that “We become what we want to be, by
consistently being what we want to become each day.” So, as we talked about
before, our starting place is to begin acting in those characteristics we want
to emulate. If you want to be merciful,
make a conscious effort to extend mercy in the way our Savior does. As you do this, as you act in these ways, you
allow the Atonement of Christ to work in you, and the Atonement literally
changes you into a “new creature” until you are not only acting merciful, but
you have become merciful.
Right now in your minds, there are thoughts of “rats” you
have the opportunity to catch and keep out of your cellar. The spirit is
calling to mind things that need to be addressed and that each of us could do a
little better with. Elder Christofferson has counseled us,
“I would like to speak of one
particular attitude and practice we need to adopt if we are to meet our
Heavenly Father’s high expectations. It is this: willingly to accept and even
seek correction. Correction is vital if we would conform our lives “unto a
perfect man, [that is,] unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of
Christ”. Paul said of divine correction or chastening, “For whom the Lord
loveth he chasteneth”. Though it is often difficult to endure, truly we ought
to rejoice that God considers us worth the time and trouble to correct.”
I
grew up with 5 brothers, so sports were a big part of my family life. My dad coached
me and most of my brothers in whatever team sports we decided to try our hand
at each season. Maybe it’s because of this, or maybe my slightly fanatic
obsession with football that I resonate with coaching analogies. Elder Holland,
in a talk entitled ‘we are all enlisted’ spoke about joining the Lord’s team.
He was speaking to the Aaronic Priesthood, but I would like to apply his words
to all of us, so I hope you’ll allow me to adapt his words slightly:
“This
is a life-and-death contest we are in, so I am going to get in your face a
little, nose to nose, with just enough fire in my voice to singe your eyebrows
a little—the way coaches do when the game is close and victory means
everything. And with the game on the line, what this coach is telling you is
that to play in this match, some of you have to be more morally clean than you
now are. In this battle between good and evil, you cannot play for the
adversary whenever temptation comes along and then expect to suit up for the
Savior at temple and mission time as if nothing has happened. That, my friends,
you cannot do. God will not be mocked. So we need members already on the team
to stay on it and stop dribbling out of bounds just when we need you to
get in the game and play your hearts out! In almost all athletic contests of
which I know, there are lines drawn on the floor or the field within which
every participant must stay in order to compete. Well, the Lord has drawn lines
of worthiness for those called to labor with Him in this work. No missionary or
disciple of the Lord can be unrepentant of sexual transgression or profane
language or pornographic indulgence and then expect to challenge others to
repent of those very things! You can’t do that. The Spirit will not be with
you, and the words will choke in your throat as you speak them. You cannot
travel down what Lehi called “forbidden paths” and expect to guide others to
the “strait and narrow”6 one—it can’t be done.”
We
have spoken about courage and how the strength to become courageous in
ourselves and then with others comes through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. It
is through the enabling power of the Atonement that we are able to be called
children of God and to put off the natural man and repent of our sins and
mistakes. Our Savior beckons to us with open arms to “come unto him”. As we
draw closer to Him the natural man should draw further away from us. It takes
courage to show this type of integrity. As Job said, “While my breath is in
me…. I will not remove mine integrity from me.”
Do we hold our integrity in the same regard?
Brothers
and sisters, it is time for each of us to try a little harder to be a little
better. It is truly by small and simple things that great things come to pass.
It will be through diligent everyday discipleship through consistent courage that
you will see this transformation take place in you.
I
testify to you that as we act in courage we will become courageous, we will
receive strength and power through the Atonement to become what we need to
become so we will recognize the voice of our Savior when He calls for us by name. May the light of our Savior shine through us even when we
find ourselves in the dark, is my prayer, in His name who makes all things
possible, even Jesus Christ, Amen.
I loved this so much!!! And I LOVE YOU!!! :) You have always been such an amazing example of courage and testimony. Thank you for sharing this. :)
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